Lately I have met so many people thanks to my coaching. Even though they come from different places, work in different businesses, speak different languages, they all needed to hear these same things that I personally keep telling to myself when my self-confidence is challenging me.
When your self-confidence is about to run away, keep in mind these three doubt killers:
If you don’t try, you will never know
Please don’t wait for someone to promote you, don’t wait for someone to lose fat for you, don’t wait for someone to chat with this guy, don’t wait for someone to make new friends for you. No one will do things for you to reach your goals, to fulfil your wishes and to heal your negativity.
Taking risks is not only part of life, this is actually an essential part of building your confidence. Go for it, get out of your confort zone, take the first step and you will see that nothing horrible happens. You just take one more step closer to the person you want to be.
We attract what we are
Law of attraction can be a powerful thing when this is well used but unfortunately, people are not aware of how it works and I’m not even sure they know that thing can even exists. When you think a lot about something, when you keep telling yourself you are worthless, when you put into your mind love is bullshit, you will attract what reflects to it. You will meet people who abandon themselves such as you, you will meet people who don’t care either about the meaning of love and so on, and so on.
So if you want to be surrounded by successful people, by people who can lift you, by good vibes and positivity, then be positive, be successful, smile, give your love, share your passion, bright from the inside, enjoy the present moment and what you want will come to you.
Fake it until you make it
This is actually the best way for you to beat this self-doubt inside you. No matter how you feel, believe that you are killing it. If you don’t feel confident when you need to, when you have to introduce yourself but you know already you won’t be credible, if you want this job but you are worried about all the other candidates, FAKE IT, DRESS FOR IT, GO FOR IT.
Fake your confidence, your smile, reflects what you want to see from you if you look at the mirror. Dress for the job you want, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Others will treat you as you expect to be treated. Others will look at you the way you are expecting to be seen.
Full love – JG